Saturday, May 28, 2016

Austin and Chloe's Wedding and Zone Conferences - May 17th 2016



May 17th 2016

Hello Family and Friends,

What can I say? The wedding was a fairytale, Austin and Chloe shared such a beautiful day with us, and the temple ceremony was the highlight.  The week in the U.S. was full of so many delightful things. Grand babies top the list, and a trip to the new City Center Temple; Michael was ordained a high priest (new bishopric counselor); the wedding shower; meeting Chloe's great family; making flowers for the wedding with Chloe's delightful Grandma; family time--but definitely not enough talk time; running into a few friends but not having nearly enough time to get in touch with everyone that I wanted to say hello too.  I thought about all of you, but the time went so quickly. I still feel bad that I couldn't spend more time with Bill's Mom and Dad, and family. I love you all so much, and I appreciate all of your love and support in coming to see Austin and celebrate with them.  Thank you!


Just over a week ago we were on a plane headed back to Greece.  22 hours later we arrived,  happy to be met by Dad who was so glad to see us.  A bit fuzzy with fatigue and still spinning with all of the wedding excitement, we tried to tell Dad all the details--but it took a couple of days to get it right.  The weather in Athens was gorgeous, but even so, we just really missed the grand babes and of course their parents, our orphan son Brooks and the newlyweds.
The next morning we were all up bright and early. The girls had school and I had to get things organized for a Zone Conference in Athens.  The conferences are always great, but I must say I was having a bit of jet lag.. It's a miracle I could stay on my feet long enough to lead my part of the discussion on "Teaching People not Lessons."  Luckily I had prepared my notes ahead of time, and at least during the discussion, I was with it. But then the conference ended  and the fog rolled back into my head. Somehow I got home... But then the next morning we jumped on a plane to Cyprus for the next Zone Conference. While there we also got to spend time with our new senior couple in Larnaka, the Cranneys from Lindon, Utah, as well as the sister missionaries. Then I was on a plane back to Athens, leaving Dad there for several more days to complete missionary interviews, temple recommend interviews and other church and mission business.  I needed to get back home to help the girls, whom we had left behind when we went to Cyprus. I also needed to meet some visitors coming in from Crete.
This week will be full of meetings with a couple of charitable organizations, one is a women's shelter called the Melissa Group, that helps women and children. The other group, Praxsis, has a garden project in their shelter for unaccompanied minors and they would like my help on how to design it. So we're going to see if we can get some members and missionaries and a big group of MBA master students from BYU (coming the end of May)  to help make it happen.  We also have a hygiene kit humanitarian project that is happening at the girls' high school on Wed. where the students will have a chance to come and make kits. The school and the faculty are excited about this project and the chance to contribute to the Refugee crisis.  I am excited about having a project that involves the community and a chance for them to see good things that our church is doing.  


​Our Syrian Family friends who we met in Athens are in need of our help our prayers: they have been waiting patiently for their asylum interview.  Meanwhile, for reasons we can't understand, they have been purposely ignored and put to the bottom of the waiting list by the people in charge. The group of people that they have traveled with since the border have all gotten appointments along with private housing and most of them have even received notification of the country they will be resettled to, but not this wonderful family. Rawad, the oldest daughter still has injuries from a bomb and has suffered intensely with pain making it hard to sleep and eat.  She has visited a few doctors who will see her and they say she should "learn to live with it." This family is incredible, intelligent, and full of faith, and they need our prayers.  Melena (a wonderful young returned missionary that has been helping them--sent me a message that exclaims how much she wants to help them.  She said, "I feel helpless!  But then I remember that I believe in a God of miracles. I know that He loves this family and will take care of them!  He wants the best for them. So I ask you to add your faith to ours and join us in supplication of our God to guide their path, that the organizations, governments and people who have a say in their fate may be susceptible to God's will and that it may be helped!"
Sister LeeAnn Heder

Pictures :  Reunion with the grandbabes, some of Austin and Chloe's bridal photos, visiting the Football office and having a senior moment with Austin - the Kaufusi brothers and some of the coaches and staff, attending the new Provo City Center Temple - (Brooks had a class he couldn't miss), back in Athens and Cyprus the day after we got home for Zone Conferences,  the fun shower we had for Chloe in Grandma Pats amazing garden :)
More pics from the wedding day next letter.

I sent her message to my missionaries but thought I would involve my family as well. We love you all and are so grateful for your love and support and faith. ​​



We just finished another round of zone conferences (so soon after LeeAnn's return that she was only partly awake for some of it..) and then I had several more days of meetings and interviews in Cyprus afterward. The theme for our conferences was "Our Mission & Message" I started out with a picture of Vince Lombardi and his famous quote from the first day of the 1967 Greenbay Packer's training camp, "Gentlemen, this is a football." We talked about getting back to what we were called to do: preach repentance and baptize converts. With all the service projects, all the different finding methods and all the efforts to get Facebook contacting and a Greek national page for lds.org up and running, I have felt that the missionaries needed to be re-grounded in their purpose--because ultimately, no other pursuit will be fulfilling. So while times are hot and hard, I told them I needed them to do more, not less. I promised them that they are made of eternal material that needs to be stretched. 

It was wonderful to be with them again; to see their enthusiasm and feel their faith and desire. It's a blessing daily.

Thank you all for your support of Austin, Chloe and the family in my absence. You're the best.

Bill O. Heder
Greece Athens Mission






Hugs for the grand babes





Senior football moment with Austin




Zone Conference Cyprus

Athens





Humanitarian Aid - visiting a member in Rhodes April 30, 2016



April 30th 2016

We just got home from spending our day with the missionaries - which are always the best days.  We put together 750 hygiene kits with members and investigators, enjoyed a potluck lunch and then the missionaries with several investigators watched the last session of conference.

Easter is a very big deal here and it has been a month long celebration.  The last few days the markets have been packed as they prepare for the Easter feasts.  I chose not to take pictures of the whole skinned goats (head and eyes included) hanging on the wall at the butcher counter; not pretty, but very popular right now.  They have several other traditions that include colored red eggs and round loaves of bread that have a whole colored egg cooked in the center. The pastry shops have chocolate bunnies up to three feet tall made with very fine chocolate.  Yesterday the church bells rang from 8 am to 11 pm which was really quite delightful until by the end of the day Marie and I could sing the ring tones with perfect rhythm, Ha.  We are going to attend the candlelight ceremony tonight at midnight with some of our neighbors.  There have been fireworks going off all day long.  Most of the stores are closed today and many return to their families home village so the traffic is light.

One other fun and unique event that happened this last week was that the Olympic torch for the 2016 Games in Rio was lit in Athens, kicking off a journey that will cross continents before ending in Brazil on Aug. 5.  The event was in the Panathenaic Stadium which hosted the first modern Olympic Games in 1896.  It holds 50,000 people and is made completely of marble. A Greek gymnast was the first of roughly 12,000 athletes who carried the torch through  83 cities and 500 towns on its journey to Athens from Mt. Olympia.  This celebration in Athens marked 100 days until the games begin. We enjoyed the evening very much, after the torch lighting the Greeks and the Brazilians basically had a dance off.  One group would preform and then the other.  Both styles very different, the Greek with a more folk style and the Brazilian with heavy drum beats like a carnival, of course the energy and music were enjoyed by all.  Then a really popular Greek singer came out in a fancy white suit and everyone went crazy and I asked Marie why she wasn't screaming.  She laughed :)  

We had an amazing time enjoying Austin's company here in Greece before he flew home to get ready for his wedding.  Alinda is already there enjoying so many great senior moments with her friends.  Marie and I start our journey in the morning,  Yay!

Love, 

LeeAnn
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Hello All,

While Austin, the Olympic flame and the Orthodox Easter season have all come, so have more refugees, more visits to relief organizations, transfers of Elders and Sisters, more training and renewed efforts for finding, teaching and baptizing. Today would normally have been our preparation day, but it was spent in another humanitarian project. A recent change in Greek governmental policy regarding the refugees has led to the creation of over 100 more permanent camps around the country to house refugees for 6-36 months while they await some permanent placement--or deportation to their country of origin. It's actually viewed as a positive move, since groups and individuals have been moved and unsettled between make-shift camps and compounds that were over-crowded and poorly run. These new camps will hopefully allow the people to settle into safe places, form a sense of community and govern themselves somewhat. The church is finding a more ready access in this new format and there are more opportunities for people to have a direct contact and impact.

Life is good and busy, and even though Lee's pics can make it seem like we're just going from one vista to another, the reality is that those moments are what we can catch between long stretches of intense days full of many good but exhausting things. There is a particular kind of exhilaration that comes when you're engaged in something wonderful, even when it takes every minute of the day. It's a good day.

Love you all, Bill. 


Pictures:  Austin in Delphi, visiting our member in Rhodes with a great sunset, the Olympic torch lighting ceremony, saying goodbye to a wonderful sister missionary on Mars Hill, Humanitarian project- 750 hygiene kits and Alinda at Prom with one of her best friends Alex that she has known since kindergarten.



Delphi




Visiting our member in Rhodes


Olympic torch lighting ceremony to start the journey to Brazil for the 2016 Games







Sisters for sure - we love Sister Bakewell


Senior Prom in Utah







Humanitarian Project - making 750 hygiene kits

The Parthenon and our new Senior Couple - April 23rd 2016

April 23, 2016

While up on top of the Parthenon yet another time with our great new senior couple the Larsens, who are going to serve up in Thessaloniki, we ran into some more church friends who were on a cruise.  She started talking and I said,"I know who you are, you are my favorite youth speaker Diana Hoelsher" she laughed and said yes.  We then had a great chat and I told her that in preparation for my last Zone Conference I had just listened to her talk, "Sleeping through Gethsemane" she has a very distinct voice and it was so fun to run into her and her 3 children and 3 other military families from Germany that were with her.  They did not know really where to go and so they joined our group and I showed them the hidden old town of Annatheotica at the base of the Acropoli and then took them to a great gyro and sovlaki place for lunch.  Even when we are walking around seeing the same things on Mars Hill or the Parthenon the thing that is always different and now the best part is the people I get to talk too.  Wearing a badge that marks me as a missionary gives the perfect opportunity to talk and tell lots of shop workers and tourists why I live in Greece and what my badge represents.  

I had conversations with a couple with a new baby and met their whole big extended family from Germany.  He left the conversation telling me that he liked Mormons a little better now and would keep an open mind.  A shop keeper took a card and said he would look online at more information about our church and a waiter who was very grumpy when he started serving us at lunch was happy and joking with all of us after serving us lunch and having Diana and myself tell him why he should look the teachings and see why it makes us so happy and why it is different. He must of thought we were a little crazy but he definitely saw that we were having good wholesome fun and we loved our families.  

Later this same day back in front of our Acropoli church I said hello to a homeless lady that is always sitting on the front steps of the Greek Orthodox Church next to our church.  She told me she couldn't talk to me because it wasn't safe to talk to me and I told her I was just trying to be a friend and see if she needed anything.  She didn't know what to say, I just told her that I hoped that she was happy and having a nice day.  Maybe next time she will want to say more, I can tell she has a story to tell.

 Last week at our small branch in Helandri our Greek members had their first chance to listen to conference in Greek.  We also had a couple listening in a room in German and another elderly grandma member listening in Spanish in the office and 4 of us were listening in English.  All at the same time.  At the end of the conference session we all came together and had brought things for a potluck lunch.  Sharing thoughts about the messages that we had heard and enjoying lunch.  The members love to get together because once they leave the church to go home they don't have that support in their neighborhoods. 

I wrote this awhile ago but haven't been around to send it out.  President Heder sends his love, we have been soooo busy with all the right things. Up in Thessaloniki last weekend and then off to a Mission President Seminar in Germany.  That really recharged our batteries, great training and so fun to share with other mission presidents and wives.  Austin is visiting and having a great time with his sisters.  

Love and Hugs,

Sister LeeAnn Heder

P.S.  These pictures are for Dad Heder so that he can feel like he visited the Parthenon without needing to be there in person.  So fun to run into church members from all over the world in Athens that are on vacation :)

The Parthenon


Elder and Sister Larsen - serving in Thessaloniki




Met up with Diana Hoelsher touring Athens





A temple by the Agorra







Spring has sprung